被命运主宰，还是主宰命运？Dominated by fate, or masters of your destiny?

请问大家，相信命运吗？有掌控命运的能力，还是听天由命而认命？

Would you believe in fate? Do you have the ability to control the fate and resign to fate?

有个人，从山上直接滚下来，撞到大石头死了。
另一个人，从同样的山，和之前的那一个人在同样的位子滚下来。在他滚下来的同时，看到了前面有个大石头，于是他稍微移动身体，这样就避过了大石而大命不死。前者是任由命运的摆布；后者是摆布命运。
你会选哪一种人，你又是那一种人？

A person, rolled down directly from the mountain and and died after hit a big rock.
Another person, from the same mountain, rolled down at the same position where doest the previous did. While he is rolling down, he saw the boulder, and he slightly moved his body, so he can avoid the boulder and safe his life. The former is left at the mercy of fate; the latter is the mercy of fate.
You would choose what kind of person, and you are what kind of person?

“我们”等于包括我自己，通常都会选后者，因为人类都是贪生怕死的动物。除非那个人觉得自杀比起生存的意义还要大，要不然，他/她也不会傻到去选着前者。
那我们又是哪一种人？

"We" including myself, usually will choose for the latter, as human are afraid to die. Unless that he/she feel that suicide is more important than the meaning if life. Otherwise, he/she will not crazy on it to select the former one.

我听过很多人说，包括我的亲戚，朋友，路人，阿猪阿狗，都说某某事情要顺其自然。
这些人可以形容为懒人–相信命运，想改变命运，但懒得去行动。这些对自己不负责任的人，当某事情结果他所理想的，就会说这是他的命。如果不是他所想像的，也一样会说这是他的命再加多一句，他们认命。

I have heard many people say, including my relatives, friends, passers-by, Ah Pig Ah Dog, say things should go with the flow.
These people can be described as fiddle-faddle, lazy - they believe in fate, want to change, but too lazy to act. These kind of irresponsible people of their own, if there is good result or in expected result of his matters, they said that this is his life. If the result which not he thought, the same would say that this is his life, together with they resign to fate.

这种懒人，没有资格说认命！就好像以上的故事前者，从山上顺其自然的滚下来，死了以后下到地狱见阎王说这是他的命，阎王要他三更死，不得留命到五更。阎王只会对他说，“放屁！”

This kind of lazyman, not qualified to say that accept its fate! Just like the former, after rolled down from the hill get hit to rock, after death dropped down to hell and tell Hades, this is his life, Hades wanted his life on right now, it cannot been drag until later. Hades just said to him, "fart!"

那些从山滚下来，左摆右摆、（无关技术的问题）什么方法都试过得想避开死神，最终还是难逃一死。这种人才有资格说认命。

Those rolled down from the mountain and try to swing around, (unrelated to technical problems) had tried whatever methods to avoid the death, and was still unable to escape from death. Such person are qualified to say resign to fate.

改变命运，得到理想的结果为上签。

To change the fate, get the ideal result is "high signed".

改变命运，没有理想的结果为中签。

To change the fate, there is no ideal result is "middle signed".

认命的，没有理想的结果为下签。

For those accepted their fate, and without the desired results is the "low signed".

认命的，想要有理想的结果，慢慢去发你的春秋大梦吧！

Those accepted their fate, and want to have good results, try to dream on slowly!

奉献大家，人生短短几十年，就勇敢的去追求你的梦想，你所要的。
从你的幻想跳出来，把它带来现实吧。（不是想你有100万就硬想要把它拉出来，这是不可能的。）

Dedication to everyone, Life is short in decades, take up your braves to pursue your dreams, and what you wants. Bring out your fantasies to the reality. (Don't think that you want to pull 1 million out from your dream, it is not possible.)

“没有拿起来，就没有放下的机会”

"There is no opportunities for you to put it down, if you had never take it up."